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 Title: The Harmful Effects of Toxic People Toxic individuals are a scourge on our society, spreading negativity and harmful behavior wherever they go. A friend recently shared a personal experience that perfectly illustrates the destructive power of toxic people. While playing a casual game of cricket with her brother and friends, my friend's sister-in-law repeatedly interrupted, demanding they stop playing as she needed to pass through. When the ball accidentally hit her foot on the fourth attempt, she reacted with anger, throwing the ball outside and ending the game. This incident highlights the toxic behavior that can quickly turn a pleasant atmosphere into a negative one. Toxic people are everywhere, and their harmful behavior can be found in our homes, workplaces, and social circles. They disrespect boundaries, interfere in every matter, and react negatively when excluded. They justify their behavior, always considering themselves right and never wrong. They feel like the wor...

 *The Power of Defense Mechanisms: Understanding How We Cope with Pain* Sigmund Freud's concept of defense mechanisms has revolutionized our understanding of human psychology. According to Freud, we all have two ways of dealing with pain and suffering: positive defense and negative defense. *Negative Defense: A Harmful Coping Mechanism* Negative defense involves redirecting our anger or frustration towards someone else, often unrelated to the original cause of pain. This unhealthy coping mechanism doesn't address the root cause of the issue, and can lead to more harm than good. For example, if someone is hurt by a past experience, they may lash out at someone else who had nothing to do with it. This not only harms others but also prevents us from confronting and resolving our own issues. *Positive Defense: A Healthy Approach to Coping* On the other hand, positive defense involves acknowledging and understanding our pain, and taking steps to address it in a constructive manner. ...